What Keeps Me Going?

Some of you may or may not know that I am an eighteen year old mom of a one year old little boy, and I am also still a high school student. Everything completely changes when you become a mom. For example your social life, you will loose friends because you can't just go hang out and party at the drop of a hat anymore, also you have someone else to think about and take care of other than just yourself. And the money, oh boy are they expensive! Being a mom is definitely the hardest thing I have ever done, but also the most rewarding. I have lots of support behind me like my mom, a few friends and people at school. On the other hand, I'm not going to lie though, there have been days when I feel like I can't take it anymore. Although just one look at my little mans adorable smiling face and I know everything is going to be okay. I wouldn't trade being a mom for anything. Yes, you have to give up and sacrifice alot, but you will get so much in return.

Thanksgiving Food For Babies

Thanksgiving is approaching very quickly! Of course we all want our babies to have safe healthy food without having to make an entirely different meal for them, so here are a few things I believe would and would not be okay for your little one to eat!

Good For Gobbling:

• mashed or small pieces of turkey
• mashed potatoes
• sweet potatoes
• green bean cassrole
• peas
• carrots
• cranberry sauce
• bread or rolls
• pumpkin pie
• apple pie

Just small portions of the pies of course though because of all the sugar!

Pass On These:

• corn (it is not very easy to digest.)
• rich-tasting casseroles (they may not be ready for that many flavors and may spit it out.)
• stuffing (can contain onions, rich seasonings, choking hazards or seafood.)
• raw veggies from a relish tray (too hard and crunchy for baby to chew, choking hazard.)
• deserts with nuts or peanut butter (your child might have a nut allergy you don't know about.)

It is IMPOSSIBLE To Spoil An Infant

Lots of parents including myself were worried about spoiling our babies by holding them too much, but it really is impossible.

  "During the first six months, it's really impossible to spoil a child," reassures David Mrazek, M.D., chairman of psychiatry and psychology at the Mayo Clinic, in Rochester, Minnesota. "Meeting an infant's need to be comforted, held, and fed in a predictable fashion helps him feel secure and builds a loving relationship between parent and child. It does not lead to spoiling."

Responding to your toddler also fosters independence, says Peter Gorski, M.D., an assistant professor of pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, in Boston, and chairman of the American Academy of Pediatricians' National Committee on Early Childhood, Adoption, and Dependent Care. "A child will be more willing to explore boundaries and explore his world if he knows he can depend on his parents," Dr. Gorski says.

So, please do not ever think you can love and hold your baby too much, that little baby need all the attention from you that it can get.

http://www.parents.com/baby/development/behavioral/can-you-spoil-a-baby/

Baby Wearing!

Using a baby carrier can be very convenient and a relief on your arms if you have a big baby like I do!
I tried using the Soft Structured Carrier aka SSC, which is a carrier that you buckle around your waist then you put your baby in the pouch in front of you then buckle the shoulder buckle and you are good to go.

It was so nice having my son in it because I didn't have to worry about my arms getting tired or dropping him or anything, I definitely recommend this one.

There are also many other wraps that many people enjoy using.

Mei Tai aka MT: This is an Asian-style carrier that is tied. It features a body panel with two long shoulder straps coming from the top right and left hand corners to tie with two waist straps coming from either base corner. Various sizes are available: baby, toddler, preschool ect. Some also have padded waist and shoulder straps. Can be used for front and back carries. This one is very similar to the Soft Structured Carrier but that one buckles and this one ties.

Ring Sling aka RS: A length of fabric with a pair of rings sewn into one end. Used for one shouldered carries on front or hip, good for newborns up to preschooler. Great for quick up and down carries or a tired legged toddler.

Those are just a few of the many wraps. If you would like to find out more information on baby wearing, there is a La Crosse Babywearers group. The link for their facebook is:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/laxwibabywearers/

Simple Toys Are Best

You do not need to go out and spend a bunch of money on the latest toys that are out, because in relatiy, your child really will not care. My son was seriously happy with just about anything I gave him. Here are a few examples of things I gave my son and just things that most people have around the house.

• Empty water bottles
• Plastic measuring spoons and cups
• Pots and pans
• Keys

It is very important to remember not to give them anything that is less than one and a half inches, since they will put everything in their mouth.

Picture from amazon.com

No Baby Talk!

Speak Parentese, not baby talk.
Parentsese is not merely and English speaking pratice, its spoken around the world.

When we see a baby youll probably start talking in a high pitched tone and stretching out your vowels like "Whooose a prettyy baybeee?" This musical way of talking is called parentese. It helps caregivers connect to their babies and helps babies devolp their language skills.

How is Parentese different from baby talk?
Baby talk uses nonsense words and sounds. Parentses uses actual words, in short and simple sentences, often repeated over and over again. For example: "Who's my li-i-ttle baybee? Are you my littlee baybee? Yes, yoooou are!"
I have used parentses to talk to my son ever since he was first born, and now at one year old he says lots of words. And on his way to saying some sentences!

The link below is where I got all of this information, the site also has alot of other helpful tips.
http://www.pbs.org/parents/child-development/baby-and-toddler/baby-talk-speaking-parentese/

Picture from americanchild.org